Sloppy seconds (or slops in Australian slang[1]) is a slang phrase for when a man has sexual intercourse with a female or male[2] partner who already has received another man's penis in the relevant orifice and is therefore wet or "sloppy".[3][4] The phrase "buttered bun" is sometimes used to refer to said orifice.[5][6] The practice is also referred to as a "wet deck".[7]

The term is used, by extension, to refer to any act of entering into a sexual relationship with a person who had previously been in a sexual relationship with someone else in one's peer group.[8]

In November 2022, South Australian Premier Peter Malinauskas was criticised after using the term in a press conference. He apologised, and said he was not aware that it was a sexual term.[9]

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References

  1. Dalzell, Tom; Victor, Terry, eds. (2013). The New Partridge Dictionary of Slang and Unconventional English (2nd ed.). Abingdon, Oxon: Routledge. ISBN 978-0-415-61949-3.
  2. Paul Baker (25 May 2004). Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang. Bloomsbury Academic. p. 194. ISBN 978-0-8264-7343-1.
  3. Doyle, Charles (2012). The Dictionary of Modern Proverbs. New Haven: Yale University Press. p. 234. ISBN 978-0300136029.
  4. Congressional Record. July 23, 1998. p. 16928. Original source: "Where'd you learn that?", article in Time magazine, Monday, June 15, 1998.
  5. Comfort, Alex (1987). The Joy of Sex: a Cordon Bleu guide to lovemaking. New York: Pocket Books. p. 160. ISBN 0671735187.
  6. Grose, Francis; Partridge, Eric (2004). A Classical Dictionary of the Vulgar Tongue. Washington, D.C., United States: Beard Books. p. 63. ISBN 1587982471.
  7. Edwin Benzel Steen and James Harold Price, Human Sex and Sexuality (1988), p. 332.
  8. Luisa Dillner, Love by Numbers: The Hidden Facts Behind Everyone's Relationships (2009), p. 47.
  9. SA Premier Peter Malinauskas criticised over 'sloppy seconds' remark about AFL round win, ABC News, 15 November, 2022
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